Wednesday, September 24, 2014
I have looked at this photo of Abbey, Kate and me from the Plaza 10K enough times this week that I feel like I should have figured out by now what exactly we were looking at, but I still have no clue. We walked a race while Rachel was here, and it was a long one. Walking 6.2 miles is no small feat, but we actually trained for it with long walks - 3, 3.5, 4, 4.5, 5, 5.5 and 6 mile walks - in the weeks leading up to the race! I admire people who are runners. As for me, I'm a walker. It's more my speed.
Rachel shared some of these photos last week on her post about training for the NYC Marathon. I've seen Rachel run marathons in Pittsburg, Oklahoma City, and Chicago, and I always get a little bit sad when she runs one without me there to cheer her on. Getting to New York the first weekend in November wasn't looking super easy this year!
It was so nice to have Rachel in town to throw a lovely shower, but also because the ladies in my life make my world a brighter place. Don't get me wrong, the shower was off the chain and amazing. Just wait till you see all the detailed photos of the party! But the shower was also a wonderful excuse to spend a great amount of time with people I love, who have loved for me and cared for me for a long time.
Rachel and Katherine are two of my first K-State friends. That means we've been taking really special photos since fall of 2001...these photos on the Plaza are par for the course.
Rachel and Katherine both arrived on Friday afternoon, and we organized a big last minute dinner with some friends, kids, spouses at BRGR. We all bunked at my house which meant that each day was full of good conversation, old ridiculous stories, and a sweet baby! I was thrilled to host Katherine's baby Isaac as well. We got to hang out so much and finished off the visit with a lovely, boozy brunch on the Plaza after the race without any kids and husbands. This weekend was one for the books.
This girls sleepover marked the final hurray for house guests in my little bungalow. The next time house guests come to town and need a place to stay, I will be married and living five miles south of my current home, and I'll have a guest room to offer them with their own bathroom and an actual bed (not an inflatable mattress). The little house on Ash, sweetly nicknamed "The Clubhouse," has been so very good to me and so many good friends have filled it up for over three years.
Monday, September 15, 2014
The temperatures over the weekend and the beginning of fall this week make summer seem so long ago, but really we were finishing up summer well into Labor Day weekend. The first football game delivered with the steamy temps and beating sun, and I still walked before work to avoid the hot afternoons all the way into the first week of September. The heat broke last weekend, and I pulled on a sweatshirt for Farmers Market in the morning. We didn't melt at the Greek festival, and our last training walk for the Plaza 10K was a lovely 65 degrees. Every year when fall creeps in with cool September days, I remember how much I love every single thing about fall, especially in Kansas City.
That's probably why I need the summer manifesto. It motivates me to beat the heat, find the fun things happening around town and take advantage of the long dog days of summer. Kip and I finished everything on the list, including canning a big batch of tomatoes and peaches. We also froze some peaches, made candied jalapenos, and slow roasted roma tomatoes to stock the freezer. I squeezed in five batches of homemade salsa as well which I mostly eat by the spoon in my lunches. It's that good.
Next summer I will live almost exactly five miles south of here in our house, and we'll be married! We won't be planning a wedding, gearing up for BOTAR, but I might take another grad school class. I think the summer manifesto will still be fun to draft in late May because it balanced out fun things for me to do on my own, with Kip, and with friends and family around town. Depending on how much we love all our preserved food this winter, we'll scale back or ramp up our food preservation. My money is on even more obsessing canning. Maybe we'll go on a trip since we mostly stayed here this summer, or maybe we'll find more things to love about KC. We definitely experience four seasons in Kansas, and while summer was good to us, I'm so excited about fall. Football, the American Royal and Bob's 47, and not to mention a wedding. Fall looks pretty good from here.
Friday, September 12, 2014
Last year I was busy with BOTAR. Lauren and I spent two evenings a week with all the young BOTARs while they learned the very lovely waltz for the ball as rehearsals chairs. The running joke I've told about Kip is that if he can fall in love with me while I am rehearsals chair, then he's a BOTAR champ already. But this year, we're both busy with BOTAR. It started about two weeks ago, and it will be a blitz until the ball on October 18th.
Serving on exec can be a lot of work, though most of my responsibilities as recording secretary were last spring. It's also just so much fun. Every member of the executive committee is invited to every event the BOTARs and their escorts attend, and often with their husbands/significant others. I haven't been to most of these events since I was a BOTAR in 2007, so it feels like a privilege to be at the Presidents Tea, meet all the young women and their lovely families, and all the parties and events up until the ball.
Kip is obviously a tremendous sport about the whole thing. He's been to events with BOTARs and their escorts, cocktail parties with their parents, and his first event down at the American Royal, the Royal Welcome. He dresses for the occasion (pearl snaps and boots are always appropriate) and comes along with a happy heart. Kip was there last fall when nomintating called and asked if I would serve on exec, and we have discussed from the beginning how this effects both of us and our schedules. I think the craziness is made better that this is a special one time level of involvement for both of us - unless I was ever lucky enough to serve on exec again! He was measured for his tux with tails last week, and I love that he'll be the one escorting me when they introduce exec at the ball. What a guy.
The event last Friday night at the American Royal was designed to get all the BOTARs, escorts, and all their parents in the same room to meet each other. It's pretty awesome to watch everyone meet the parents, and we both loved visiting with some of the parents who have known my mom and uncle for years. Kip and I arrived about an hour early to lead a group of BOTARs/escorts through their American Royal orientation. Kip learned a few things too about how important the Royal is to the city. I won't get on my American Royal soapbox today, but I probably will revisit it soon. It's 115 years old and still awesome.
Saturday I attended the Presidents Tea with all the BOTARs, their moms and former presidents of the organization. While the highlight is totally the 2014 dress reveal, the fashion show with dresses from previous years is amazing. They featured all of the dresses of exec, and it was fun to see someone model my pretty red dress from seven years ago. There are some great dresses, and there are some "what were they thinking?" dresses as well!
My dear friend Amy is on exec with me, serving as corresponding secretary. She writes a lot of notes, which I'm glad is not my job since right now I write a lot of thank you notes. I'm lucky to be involved with BOTAR thanks to the kindness of my sixth grade math teacher and proposer, Kim Mann.
So yes, it's busy with BOTAR, planning a wedding, squeezing in some football, and combining two houses into one. I'm thankful that BOTAR is something Kip and I can do together, and it's busy with events and people that I love. If you would like to come out and join the American Royal fun, plan on attending the rodeo and the parade later this month. Spoiler alert: I'm riding a horse in the parade. Or we would love to see you at the barbeque at the beginning of the next month! I'll be happy to give you all the details, and we can hang out in our cowboy boots and enjoy Kansas City in the fall.
Thursday, September 11, 2014
Three books - one that our book club read and enjoyed, one graphic novel (hey! my genres are slowly expanding), and one audio book that I would argue is probably better as an audio book.
The Rosie Project is a darling story about a too smart for his own good college professor, Don, with undiagnosed Asberger's as he looks for a wife. It's pretty good, and we liked picking apart the different characters at book club. Heads up: the setting is Australia. Pay attention because you might miss it! I struggled to think of what else I should tell you about it, so I went back to our pal Ginny's review. She offers a great summary and mentions that it has been movie optioned. I'm with Ginny on Jeff Bridges casting as Don - his character on the Newsroom is probably Don's long lost over the top brother.
March: Book One is a graphic novel about Congressman John Lewis. It tells a great story with flashbacks from President Obama's inauguration to John Lewis's work with SNCC and the Civil Rights Movement in the 1960s. He also met Dr. King early in his training as a nonviolent protestor. Graphic novels are a new to me way to engage students in reading, and we have so many kids who prefer nonfiction, so a book like March is doubly awesome. I found this book in my summer class at Baker.
Dad is Fat I listened to on audiobook. So did Kip whenever he was in the car - we didn't talk practically for a whole Sunday running around town!. Then Erica listened to it, then her husband Jon, and I think Kate has it right now. We all drove around to KC cracking up at Jim Gaffigan's stories about his crazy family with five kids living in a two bedroom apartment in NYC. Actually, it's a fifth floor walk-up in NYC. He's a "clean" comedian which means that his stories are alternately endearing and side splitting. Gaffigan has a new book coming out this fall, and my sister and I already bought tickets to see him at Rainy Day Books (come with us!) Even though we'll get a copy of his book, I think I might listen to it on CD still. It's so funny to hear him read his own stories, and my commute will get about 20 minutes longer each day when I get MARRIED so I'm looking for other great audio suggestions. Hit the comments below...
Wednesday, September 3, 2014
We've got a weird football year ahead of us. Technically Kip and I both have season tickets, but he'll only make it to two games, and I'll just be at two more than that. Four games! That's the shortest season for me since I moved home from Virginia. With one game already under our belts, it's safe to predict that the season will go very quickly. Our wedding is the same day as the last home game of the season, but we are already betting that day will be a Wildcat victory over KU.
The first game was warm, but we made the best of it and the Cats easily won. Thankfully, the Williebago was a cool refuge from the heat before the game. The Nortons were back with a tremendous spread of food and lumberjack sandwiches as we played Stephen F. Austin University whose mascot is the lumberjack. Kip and I made a special stop to grab Call Hall Ice Cream (vanilla and vanilla crunch) which everyone inhaled with homemade cookies.
Kip will optimistically tell you that the team looked pretty good on Saturday, which is saying something because Coach Snyder doesn't show too many of his cards early in the season. As we drove home after the game, we listened to Coach's postgame interview. Here was our favorite part...
Reporter: Coach, why didn't Tyler Lockett play after the first quarter?
Snyder: Because I didn't want him to.
Reporter: Will he play next week against Iowa State?
Snyder: If I want him to.
And that's that.
Kip loves football just as much as the Luhrs Ladies do, and we had a great time enjoying the game with our friends, my family and the sweet babies at our tailgate. The traditions of football season - the pregame routines, tailgate menus, halftime beers, really good people - make Saturdays something to look forward to and always a highlight of the weekend.