Tuesday, April 15, 2014
Overwhelmed: Work, Love, and Play When No One Has the Time came onto my radar from NPR. Brigid Schulte is a reporter for the Washington Post, married to an NPR reporter, and the mother of two children. After feeling overwhelmed (obviously) with work and family responsibilities, Schulte began an exploration of how our society treats work and leisure. It's a fascinating collection of personal experiences, research and cultural expectations. Here's my warning: if you start this book, you must finish it. There is a point about 30% in where it feels like there is no hope for anyone, especially women. But it turns hopeful for the author and all of us when you get to the second section on love and family.
It pushed gently on some of the things I believe about how I spend my time and what is leisure. Inspired by the book, a couple weekends ago Kip and I did a 500 piece puzzle together. It was fun for both of us. Walking together is another thing we both enjoy (the trees!). The stuff I get to do for myself - blogging, crafting, reading, baking (most of the time) - is leisure time to me. I've found a new workout I love, and I (almost) never have to make myself go.
I have to be careful with Etsy and cookie orders because it can be so fun, but it can also make me groan. I've had too much on the to-do list for about two weeks, but I'm working on whittling it down. May 5th will mark a great shift in my responsibilities this spring. I am so very aware that these are the ways I choose to spend my 24 hours each day, and I can choose differently. Sometimes it just takes a little while to make the shifts, to say good-bye to some responsibilities and re-prioritize that leisure time.
Defending Jacob was the book club selection for March, and everyone responded differently to it but were glad they read it. My step-grandpa, Fred, gave it to me and told me I had to read it. He's only done that one other time with The Devil in the White City, and pretty much anyone who picks up that book devours it. Defending Jacob is the story of a family with a teenage son accused of murder. It follows the trial and examines the family dynamics. It made for good discussion at book club, and oh man, the ending.
Out of the Dust was a reread for me because our seventh graders are reading it. I was walking down the hall with a student last week and asked him about the book. He said, "It's really sad." I remembered it being sad, but thought I better read it again to be sure how serious he was. He was right - it's devastating. Kip's family lived in Oklahoma, and they have a few stories passed down that fit right in alongside the beautiful chapters written in verse by Karen Hesse. It can easily be read in a couple brief sittings, and if you have interest in Kansas/Oklahoma/dust bowl history, you won't be sorry you did. I think some of the most beautiful parts will be lost on our middle schoolers, but I hope they still get something out of it.
If you'd like to do something in your leisure time this week, make some sweet treats and print these free RV Parties tags to go with them. I'd recommend these giant M&M cookies if you need a recipe.
Thursday, April 3, 2014
There are two babies due this spring in book club, and we showered the second one with love and sweet gifts on Saturday afternoon. Abbey and Drew will be new parents later this spring, but they don't know the gender so their gifts were gender neutral. And awesome. I wish I had as many local sports team shirts as this baby will!
The shower was hosted by these lovely ladies at Andre's Confiserie Suisse (known to locals as "Andre's") on Main Street. Several of us Kansas City locals had never been, so it was a total TREAT to get to enjoy the tasty pastries and fancy desserts. They don't mess around with chocolate at Andre's. Our dessert options included some non chocolate options as well, and I think even non-chocolate lovers were pleased. (I don't know if there were other non-chocolate lovers present, but I'm always thinking of my sister.)
Saturday felt like had arrived in Kansas city, and the guests broke out the spring dresses. I laughed when I looked at the photos because Abbey and I matched the colors from her bridal shower two years ago just as well!
The ladies were fabulous hosts, while I took photos at the event and mostly just got to visit with my pals. I don't know if I like bridal showers or baby showers better, but I am recounting the first book club baby shower over on RV Parties today. It was a classic.
Wednesday, April 2, 2014
Running a small Etsy/internet business provides Rachel and I a way to connect with new customers all the time. However, the biggest blessings in the business is definitely connecting with old pals via facebook, Etsy and Instagram. A friend from high school and college reached out to have me help her with the whole bridal shower, even the cookies, and I was pleased to help. And so proud of how everything came together. I obviously wasn't at the event but am glad to have these photos to share with you!
The shower was in DC, a fabulous bridal brunch with catering by Dean & Deluca. I'm so jealous of the whole shindig. We made little "recipe for a good marriage" cards, and the hostess ordered pencils from one of my favorite Etsy shops, the Carbon Crusader. (If you click over to check it out, be forewarned. You'll spend a lot of time looking at ALL your options. I want these and these.)
My mouth drooled while I made all the food labels for the Dean & Deluca deliciousness. I also loved the simple banner with the mimosas on the end. The colors were muted and classy, and the orange slices have to be some of my favorite cookies to date. They actually weren't as tough as they look!
The invite isn't an RV original, so you won't see it in our shop. I like the challenge of starting from scratch and making a whole party pack for someone, but it's also easy to jump in and just do parts of the party decorations. It can be easier to match a "vision" for a party that way. The "how well do you know the bride?" game had the BEST questions on it. Some about her hometown, the groom, their relationships. I loved it!
Whenever our students wrap up a paper they write, they tend to say, "In conclusion..." even though we tell them NOT to every time! I can't resist it now. In conclusion, buy some pencils, order some cookies and parties should be fun.
Tuesday, April 1, 2014
I forgot! One more post from my trip to Philadelphia. This one, kind of like the other ones, is mostly for the memory book. My blurb books are all up-to-date in Kansas City, and I like the memories they hold. And ALL the words and ALL the people that I love. Kip will look through them a little bit, and I find they are easier to manage than the huge 12 x 12 scrapbooks I used to craft. Such great memories of two years in Virginia and all the adventures back in Kansas since I moved home.
I had been faithfully wearing the same St. Patrick's Day shirt since 2005. I decided it was done. Toast. Not from excessive wear but because sometimes you should give up the size medium t-shirts that were too tight when you bought them. #realtalk
I bought our new shirts when we were in Manhattan, and I think they worked perfectly. It was actually so fun to spend the whole day in matching green shirts with Rachel's family. No green beer, just green cookies carried with love from Kansas City.
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Monday, March 31, 2014
Happy Monday! We had a lovely weekend over here with good food, some fun friends and a trip to the big Hy-Vee at 95th and Antioch. Yes my friends, that grocery store is totally "weekend highlight" worthy.
Just "hopping" this morning by to let you know that if you want to pre-order any Easter cookies, now is your chance. I'll have assorted "peeps" cookies and the cuddly white bunnies on the right available this year. I could easily be convinced to throw in an Easter egg if that's what you really need. $15 for 6 cookies, $30 for 1 dozen.
E-mail me at vluhrs @ gmail.com to claim yours or leave your email in the comments, and I'll get in touch with you. Kansas City area only this time, no shipping available.
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